What 38,000+ Open When Letters Show

How people seal, time and open Open When letters, from every letter written on OpenWhen between February 4, 2026 and September 29, 2026. Counts and timings only: nothing here comes from inside a letter.

By Albert NahasUpdated

Key findings

The short version

70%

of Open When letters are opened. Letters locked behind a guardian question are opened more often (75.5%) than letters with no lock at all (69.8%).

3 min

is the median wait between a letter becoming openable and being opened. 56.8% of opened letters are read within five minutes, and 96% within a day.

1 in 3

letters (33.2%) is sealed with a guardian question only the recipient can answer.

85

letters are sealed to open more than a year from the day they were written. 8.7% of all letters carry a date lock; the median lock is 9 hours.

87%

of senders write their own title. Of those who pick a ready-made one, 36.1% choose "Open When You Miss Me".

10.4%

of letters are replies, written by someone who had just opened a letter of their own.

Opening

Most letters are opened within minutes

The Open When idea is patience: a letter for later. In practice, once a letter can be opened, most are opened almost at once. 56.8% of opened letters were read within five minutes of becoming openable, and only 4% waited longer than a day. For a date-locked letter the clock starts at its unlock time, not when it was written, so this measures the wait the recipient chose, not the lock.

  • Within 5 minutes56.8%
  • 5 to 60 minutes18.6%
  • 1 to 24 hours20.6%
  • Later4%
Opened letters sealed Sep 5 to Sep 21 2026, timed from the moment each could first be opened.Chart as image
Labels

"Open When You Miss Me" is the one people reach for

87% of senders give their letter a title of their own. The rest choose one of the ready-made labels on OpenWhen, and a handful of those do most of the work. Missing someone and wanting to feel loved account for 62% of them between them.

  • Open When You Miss Me36.1%
  • Open When You Want to Feel Loved25.4%
  • Open On Our Anniversary10.4%
  • Open When You're Sad9.5%
  • Open When You Can't Sleep2.3%
  • Open on your birthday1.7%
Among the 12.7% of letters titled with one of our ready-made labels. Everyone else wrote their own.Chart as image
Countries

Written mostly in Asia

The Philippines and India together write more than half of all letters whose country we know; the United States writes 5.9%. "Open When You Want to Feel Loved" is most often sent from Philippines (33.7%). "Open When You Miss Me" is most often sent from India (39.7%). "Open On Our Anniversary" is most often sent from Philippines (23.2%). "Open When You're Sad" is most often sent from India (32.6%).

  • Philippines27.5%
  • India26.7%
  • Indonesia13.3%
  • United States5.9%
  • Pakistan3%
  • Malaysia1.4%
  • Vietnam1.4%
  • United Kingdom1.4%
Letters whose sender's country is known (51.4% of all letters).Chart as image
Calendar

The days that spike

Against the week either side of it, the biggest single-day jumps fell on friendship occasions, not romantic ones. Sunday is the busiest day of the week, 37% busier than Wednesday.

DateOccasionvs normal
June 8National Best Friends Day2.6x
August 1Girlfriend's Day, Friendship Day weekend2.3x
August 2Friendship Day2x
Extras

What people add

Half of all letters (50.9%) carry a sticker and a third (34.6%) a song. Photos (1.5%) and voice notes (0.4%) are rare, and 1.7% of letters are premium. The letter itself is the product; the decoration is optional.

Method

How these numbers were made

  • Metadata only. No letter body or guardian question was read or categorised. Titles were only matched against our own ready-made labels; any other title counts as custom and nothing else about it is recorded.
  • Nothing small is shown. Every published figure covers at least 50 letters.
  • All 38,227 letters sealed from February 4, 2026 to September 29, 2026, excluding our own tests. Days are in UTC.
  • Opening figures cover the 9,157 letters sealed September 5 to September 21, the period in which every first open was recorded the same way, each given at least a week. An open is the first time the letter was revealed in a browser other than the one it was written in; a sender checking it from a second device would still count.
  • Countries come from where a sender first arrived from, known for 51.4% of letters. Replies are letters started from the reply button shown after opening one.
  • Spikes compare a day with the median of the seven days on either side, so growth alone does not look like a spike. Only spikes that fall on a known occasion are listed.

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Albert Nahas, OpenWhen. "What 38,000+ Open When Letters Show." September 29, 2026. https://www.openwhen.cards/open-when-letters-study

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